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Why Do People LARP Online?

Why people LARP online: privacy, status, experimentation, attention, money, and the strange freedom that comes from becoming a slightly different version of yourself on the internet.

Because the internet lets you.

That sounds stupidly simple, but it explains a lot.

Offline identity has friction.

People know your name. They know where you work. They remember what you were like three years ago. Your friend can immediately ruin a mysterious new persona by replying, “bro you cried at Applebee’s last month.”

Online, especially anonymously, you can start much cleaner.

New username.

New PFP.

New tone.

New interests.

New version of yourself.

Sometimes that version is fake.

Sometimes it is just less constrained.

Privacy is probably the least sinister reason

Not everybody wants their real identity welded to everything they do online.

Some people have jobs where posting publicly would be annoying.

Some have families they do not want dragged into internet bullshit.

Some want to talk about money without attaching a legal name.

Some just do not like the idea that a stranger can Google them and reconstruct ten years of their life before lunch.

So they make an anonymous account.

Once your real identity is removed, something weird happens.

You still need an identity.

The blank account does not stay blank for long.

It gets a name, avatar, tone, jokes, opinions, friends, enemies, habits.

Now there is a character.

Maybe the character is almost identical to the real person.

Maybe it is the loud version.

Maybe it is the version that says things the real person would never say under their employer’s logo.

Anonymity does not remove identity.

It gives you room to rebuild it.

Status obviously matters

The internet is full of tiny status systems pretending not to be status systems.

Followers.

Verified badges.

Private groups.

Invite codes.

Wallet screenshots.

Job titles.

Who replies to you.

Who follows you.

Which event you were at.

Which app appears on your screen.

Which restaurant table happens to be visible behind the laptop.

People understand these signals frighteningly fast.

And once a group agrees that certain signals mean important person, somebody will figure out how to reproduce the signals.

That does not require a conspiracy.

It is basically human nature with a profile page.

You can see the same thing in every niche.

Crypto has whales, insiders, traders, founders, early users.

Fashion has access, taste, archive pieces, invites.

Tech has founder status, funding, product launches, followers, who you know.

Fitness has numbers, photos, routines, brands.

Music has backstage photos and proximity to people more famous than you.

Every community develops a costume.

Some costumes are just harder to buy.

Sometimes people are testing a version of themselves

This one gets ignored because it is less fun than calling everyone a fraud.

The internet is one of the easiest places to try on an identity.

You can make an art account before you feel comfortable calling yourself an artist.

You can post about coding before anybody in your real life thinks of you as a developer.

You can become the guy who knows about watches, architecture, markets, photography, running, clothes, old cars, weird movies, whatever.

Sometimes the online version comes first.

Then the real person catches up.

I think this is why some LARPs feel weirdly harmless.

The person is not necessarily trying to fool anybody.

They are trying to see if the identity fits.

There is probably a period in almost every genuine identity change where you feel slightly ridiculous.

The first time somebody calls you a photographer because you started taking photos seriously.

The first time somebody calls your tiny project a company.

The first time a stranger assumes you know what you are talking about.

You can either run away from that feeling or keep going until it stops feeling like a costume.

Attention rewards stronger characters

The internet does not particularly reward “fairly normal person with mixed opinions and an average Tuesday.”

Characters are easier.

The permanently angry guy.

The absurdly rich guy.

The mysterious trader.

The anonymous founder.

The guy who supposedly lives in airports.

The girl who somehow knows every cool person before they become cool.

The doomer.

The optimist.

The villain.

The account that has one extremely specific obsession and refuses to discuss anything else.

People remember clean shapes.

Real humans are messy shapes.

So the version that performs best online is often a compressed version of the person behind it.

Turn one trait up.

Turn five others down.

Now the account has a character people can recognize in half a second.

Once attention starts arriving, there is a reason to keep the character alive.

You posted one aggressive opinion and got 40,000 views?

Congratulations, you may now accidentally be the aggressive-opinion guy for six months.

Money makes the performance more serious

Attention is nice.

Attention that converts is nicer.

A strong persona can sell.

People buy from people they believe are:

  • successful,
  • experienced,
  • early,
  • connected,
  • interesting,
  • trusted,
  • desirable,
  • or already wanted by other people.

That does not mean every commercial persona is fake.

Every business presents itself.

Every salesperson frames themselves.

Every creator learns what version of their work gets a response.

The problem is when the persona needs false material facts to function.

There is a difference between making yourself look polished and inventing results.

There is a difference between building mystique and fabricating credentials.

There is a difference between letting people think you are cooler than you feel and deliberately making them believe you have money, access, performance, or expertise that does not exist so they will buy something.

The internet blurs those lines because the same tools are used for all of it.

Photos.

Screenshots.

Bios.

Follower counts.

Testimonials.

Stories.

Selective evidence.

A completely honest person and a complete bullshitter can use the exact same interface.

There is also the simple answer: it is fun

This one matters more than people admit.

Being yourself all the time is boring.

A username can be fun.

A fake name can be fun.

An anonymous account can be fun.

Posting like a cartoonishly arrogant finance guy while your real life consists mostly of cereal and laundry can be funny.

People have always liked costumes.

The internet made costumes incredibly cheap.

You do not need a wardrobe.

You need a profile picture and commitment.

Some online personas are not elaborate attempts to manipulate social reality.

They are just people playing.

That does not make them meaningless.

Play is one of the ways people figure themselves out.

Most people probably have more than one reason

The clean categories fall apart pretty fast.

Someone starts anonymously for privacy.

The account grows.

Growth creates status.

Status creates attention.

Attention creates money.

Money gives them a reason to make the persona stronger.

Three years later the anonymous account is a business, social circle, reputation, and character all at once.

Did they start out LARPing?

Are they still LARPing?

At what point does a fake name with a real audience become a real identity?

The internet is full of things like this.

People start by pretending.

Then other people believe them.

Then opportunities appear because people believe them.

Then the opportunities make the original story more true.

It is difficult to tell where the costume ends after that.

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